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Flats Challenge Day 7: Reflections

May 27, 2012 by Angela Leave a Comment

This is the culmination of  the Second Annual Flats and Handwashing Challenge hosted by Dirty Diaper Laundry. For 7 days I have used only flat cloth diapers and handwashing them in an effort to prove that cloth diapering can be affordable and accessible to all. You can learn more about the rules and why this challenge was started by visiting the announcement post. This year there are over 45o participants from all over the world!

This last entry is late coming in. Being this is a holiday weekend and my husband is home, we’ve spent a lot of family time together this weekend. The blog posts are being written later & later. We took our flats and swim diapers out to the water park today so I’m just getting to this tonight. 🙂 Hey, DH isn’t in the Middle East, it’s all fair game, especially on a weekend  like this one.

I really wish I had tried this challenge last year. But you can’t change the past so I am really glad I did do it this year.

For those that don’t already know I am also a Circle Leader for the Real Diaper Association. There has been a tremendous amount of discussion about helping the less fortunate in our respective communities spurred most recently by Giving Diapers, Giving Hope, the non-profit Kim from DDL is making a donation to at the end of this challenge. Direct diaper donations are not within the mission of the RDA. However, some really smart people have found a way to work with other, well-established organizations to educate & donate to these families in our communities.

I began taking donations to start a similar program here during The Great Cloth Diaper Change in April. While thinking about what to teach before the diapers are distributed I decided that I had to take part in the flats handwashing challenge. I could talk about the economical value  and how to use flats, no problem, but I didn’t feel like I could talk about handwashing diapers without having any practical experience. I’ve only been doing this a week but I can see a few applications. There’s camping & vacations, lack of power, transitioning between homes, & not having a washing machine in the home. Even if you can get to a laundry mat once a week or every 2 weeks, washing by hand at home in between is absolutely a viable option. Yes, it’s hard work & yes, it takes some time & yes, there was a day or two I didn’t want to do it this week. But it can be done. And now, if I ever have to help a family learn to wash diapers by hand, I can say I know first hand how it’s done.

The last load of flats were washed after we returned from our watery adventure this afternoon & is still out on the deck in the dusk, drying. Am I ready to put my diapers back in the washer, yeah, a little bit. But I’ll say it again, I’m glad I made the decision to take part in the challenge this year.  I’m honored to take party with so many dedicated cloth diaper advocates & enthusiasts. Take a minute to read the reflections of other participants by clicking the link below. And thanks for following along this week. 😀


Filed Under: Cloth Diapers, Parenting Tagged With: advocacy, cloth diapers, flats challenge 2012, parenting, RDA, real diapers

Flats Challenge Day 6: Nearing the End

May 26, 2012 by Angela Leave a Comment

These are all the little people in my family I cloth diapered…minus my sister. 🙂

I am taking part in the Second Annual Flats and Handwashing Challenge hosted by Dirty Diaper Laundry. For 7 days I will be using only flat cloth diapers and handwashing them in an effort to prove that cloth diapering can be affordable and accessible to all. You can learn more about the rules and why this challenge was started by visiting the announcement post. This year there are over 45o participants from all over the world!

One of the most difficult aspects of this challenge for me was not so much the actual washing, but deciding to blog the adventure. I not only committed to hand washing flats for a week, but to blog about it every.single.day. too.  Normally I blog on a whim. A story or an issue brought up leads me to talk about it on  my blog. I try to do it on a semi-regular basis, but I’m absolutely NOT a blog every week let alone a blog every day kinda gal.  Mostly it’s the time commitment & the whole type up something that is somewhat coherent that people who are not in my head can follow along without too much translation.

It’s the 2 year old really. The wee nymph who is the one subjected to my experiment this week of flats. She is a tiny little ball of energy & want someone to interact with her all the time. Who can blame her? The bigs will generally give me time when I ask them for it, but you can’t ask that of a 2 year old. Or at least not for very long.

The other thing I’ve realized this week is that if I can carve out time to hand wash flats & to blog about it, I can carve out more time to take care of me. I haven’t been very good about that recently & made a commitment to myself this year to change that, even if it’s in small steps. If I gave myself the time to exercise they way I gave myself time to do this challenge I could make a big difference in  a very short amount of time. I’m not getting any younger & time isn’t slowing down one bit.



Filed Under: Cloth Diapers, Parenting Tagged With: accountability, advocacy, change, cloth diapers, flats challenge 2012, growth, parenting, RDA, real diapers

Flats Challenge Day 5: Things I’ve Learned to Date

May 25, 2012 by Angela Leave a Comment

I am taking part in the Second Annual Flats and Handwashing Challenge hosted by Dirty Diaper Laundry. For 7 days I will be using only flat cloth diapers and handwashing them in an effort to prove that cloth diapering can be affordable and accessible to all. You can learn more about the rules and why this challenge was started by visiting the announcement post. This year there are over 45o participants from all over the world!

I’m going to start with the obvious. This challenge is much easier when you have

  • an older baby.
  • a baby that is willing to poop on the toilet.
  • older kiddles who can fold flats.
  • a plunger for the bucket.
  • bright sunny days.
  • gloves.
  • Wool.

I didn’t expect to still be this happy using flats. Nor did I expect to pick up yet another fold & LOVE IT! Kim posted this fold on DDL yesterday called the Jo Fold & it’s fantastic. You can use it with pins, Boingos or Snappi. Finally, a fold my DH can get behind!

Ah yes, my DH abhors pinning diapers. This has been a pain this week.

My mainstay is normally prefolds and a nice little stash of hemp fitteds.  But I could just as easily do without them.

I really do love wool. I love to make soakers & I love to use them. PUL is great, fleece is great, but wool wins me over time & time again. It doesn’t get as stinky as the synthetic covers as quickly so it doesn’t need to be washed as often. It can also absorb a bit if the diaper is a bit too wet.  It breathes like no other.  Did I mention how much I love wool? This challenge only cements my adoration.

When washing in the washer it’s better to have a more full load. When washing by hand it’s better to have a much smaller load.  It’s also pretty easy to know when your diapers are clean & rinsed. When it’s damp, humid or raining, wringing well is your friend – this is where gloves come into play. Also, since I forgot to get a plunger while I was out today, I am still literally washing by hand. I wish my gloves were a little longer, but shorter gloves work in a pinch. It’s a good idea to turn the gloves inside out & put them out with the diapers to dry on a hot sweaty day like today, or, if you got water in them while washing like I did.

I wished I hadn’t waited to try this challenge. If I knew what I know now about this process I would have brought all the flats  & used a bucket when we returned to the States last fall while we were in temporary housing. The machines available in billets were awful & often in use. The laundry mat was expensive, often busy & the front loaders I preferred to use were broken more often than not. Handwashing would have been a very viable option during that transition time.

Yes, handwashing takes some time, but it’s doable. Very doable.

eta** In the time it took me to post this entry the flats had dried in the sun. Hooray!**

See what others have to say about what they’ve learned. Clink the link below.

Filed Under: Cloth Diapers, Parenting Tagged With: advocacy, cloth diapers, flats challenge 2012, parenting, RDA, real diapers

Flats Challenge Day 4: How’s it going?

May 24, 2012 by Angela Leave a Comment

I am taking part in the Second Annual Flats and Handwashing Challenge hosted by Dirty Diaper Laundry. For 7 days I will be using only flat cloth diapers and handwashing them in an effort to prove that cloth diapering can be affordable and accessible to all. You can learn more about the rules and why this challenge was started by visiting the announcement post. This year there are over 45o participants from all over the world!

So we’ve made it to about the half way point & things are going ok. I still haven’t replaced my plunger yet so I’ve been literally washing by hand in the bucket. Truth be told on day 2 we didn’t have any diapers because the wee nymph who allows us to wrap her in the fluff (if I say her name it’s all over, you realize this, right?) successfully used the toilet for over 24 hours. Day 3 wasn’t as lucky, but I still only had a few diapers to wash. I’m so glad I picked up gloves to save my hands or I’m quite sure I would be miserable at this point. I did manage to stab a finger last night just before going to bed with the pin. Tired much?  I wouldn’t say washing by hand is a walk in the park by any stretch of the imagination, but it’s not impossible.

It’s been rainy & humid making even flats dry slowly but they’ve still dried much faster than prefolds or fitteds would. I had a straggler prefold & fitted in the first wash that didn’t make it in the washer before the challenge started. Holy Dampness Batgirl! I could wring the flats a little tighter or roll them in a towel & press extra water out & that would be helpful. But with said wee nymph so busy, it’s hard to care out dedicated wash time. The process happens in bits & chunks. Much like writing the blog. It’s a wonder any of this makes sense. But I’m still chugging along.

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Check out how others are doing & click the button below.

Filed Under: Cloth Diapers, Parenting Tagged With: advocacy, cloth diapers, flats challenge 2012, parenting, RDA, real diapers

Flats Challenge Day 3: You want me to fold it HOW?

May 23, 2012 by Angela Leave a Comment

I am taking part in the Second Annual Flats and Handwashing Challenge hosted by Dirty Diaper Laundry. For 7 days I will be using only flat cloth diapers and handwashing them in an effort to prove that cloth diapering can be affordable and accessible to all. You can learn more about the rules and why this challenge was started by visiting the announcement post. This year there are over 45o participants from all over the world!

I remember folding & pinning diapers to my little sister back in the late 70’s, vinyl pants and all. My mom showed me how to do it & I just did it. It wasn’t scary. So why have I avoided flats for the better part of my 12 years of motherhood except to use as an emergency burp cloth? Enter peer/societal influence. Convenience is the name of the game and according to the majority of people around me, flats are in no way convenient & are way too hard to deal with and too time consuming!

Wrong.

Folding flats is only as difficult as you make it. In fact, I only FINALLY figured out the kite fold after a year of trying at our recent Circle Meeting. I had a complete block, but one of the other mommas was just folding away & had an AH-HA moment. I followed her lead & finally, success. Granted, with the advent of sites like You Tube & the proliferation of cloth diaper sites & blogs you can get your folding questions answered rather quickly without ever leaving your house.

Diaper on the left is Origami Fold & the right is Diaperbag Fold.

We use wool soakers for the most part so we pin & cover. My go to fold is the Origami fold. My older kids love it too. This is good because DH gets this glazed look on his face trying to do it. He will do it but a bit begrudgingly so having the older ones able to fold the diapers is a huge plus if my hands are busy (and when aren’t they?).

I discovered the Diaperbag fold on the DDL site while preparing for our last Circle Meeting & I really like this one too, but it’s not “look, no hands” fold yet. I still need to reference directions for it. One leg it has up on the Origami fold is I feel like it’s more Snappi friendly for some babies. With plain old woven flats (oh whoa is me) the thin material makes me leery to use a Snappi more times than not. But you can fold the Diaperbag fold so there are more layers for the Snappi legs to catch & I worry less about pinching or poking the baby.

Want to know how others fold their flats? Click the button below.


Filed Under: Cloth Diapers, Parenting Tagged With: advocacy, cloth diapers, flats challenge 2012, parenting, RDA, real diapers

Flats Challenge Day 2: Disaster Strikes

May 22, 2012 by Angela 1 Comment

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I am taking part in the Second Annual Flats and Handwashing Challenge hosted by Dirty Diaper Laundry. For 7 days I will be using only flat cloth diapers and handwashing them in an effort to prove that cloth diapering can be affordable and accessible to all. You can learn more about the rules and why this challenge was started by visiting the announcement post. This year there are over 45o participants from all over the world!

Ok, not exactly disaster, but a big disappointment anyway. At least I had already done the majority of the washing & was into my rinse cycle. I thought that I put too many holes in my plunger, but it broke off at the base, not where the holes were. What you really don’t realize is that I am built like The HULK and don’t realize my own strength. (Come on, that was at least a little funny!)

So my supply cost went up a bit & I bought a pair of $3.50 gloves to finish rinsing and to wring with. I’m glad I saw some other posts about hands being raw from wringing out diapers. I have sensitive (HULK) hands & it doesn’t take but  a quick change in temperature or forgetting to wear gloves to wash dishes before they start looking lizard-like only to quickly start cracking. And I’m gonna have to go get another plunger tomorrow. I only had time to run to the grocery store today & they didn’t have any plungers.

The good news is the plumbing bill I eluded to yesterday wasn’t outrageous & I managed to get the diapers finished in time to spend some time in the sun on my trusty German drying rack out on the deck. It was supposed to storm today but hasn’t yet & I’m taking advantage of every second of sun.

So what else am I using? Some old as dirt Gerber flats that I used with my almost 12 year old when she was born for burp cloths, complete with spit up stains, a couple of generic German flats, and about a dozen unbleached flats from a co-op. There is a solitary pin that is in constant use. Somewhere there are 7 others, but because I want to use them I can’t find them.  I have some fleece topped hemp doublers in reserve in case I need them at night. And to top it all off there are various soakers made by yours truly and a fleece wrap or two I bought from a WAHM when my 9 year old was in diapers.  I’m still using my trusty Rockin’ Green Hard Rock, just in much smaller quantities. And I found out today I could use even less!

It’s not all a complete disaster. I even figured out how to get the lid on all the way finally. I have issues, I know, but aren’t you having fun reading about it all?


Filed Under: Cloth Diapers Tagged With: advocacy, cloth diapers, flats challenge 2012, parenting, RDA, real diapers

Flats Challenge 2012 Day 1

May 21, 2012 by Angela 6 Comments

I am taking part in the Second Annual Flats and Handwashing Challenge hosted by Dirty Diaper Laundry. For 7 days I will be using only flat cloth diapers and handwashing them in an effort to prove that cloth diapering can be affordable and accessible to all. You can learn more about the rules and why this challenge was started by visiting the announcement post. This year there are over 45o participants from all over the world!

Last year I thought about taking part in the Flats Challenge, but I had hit the EOD…End Of Deployment Wall. My husband had been gone for  more than 10 months & I was burnt out to a crisp. I did, on the other hand, discuss and demonstrate flats as the monthly topic of our cloth diapering group. It helped get a lot of moms thinking about using something other than what they were using. And because we all lived in Europe, it got them thinking about how to better travel with cloth diapers. Not a bad trade off.

So this year I’m teetering on the edge. My dd is finally beginning to use the toilet more & so if I’m going to do this challenge, it has to be now.  I even made a camp bucket washer last night much to the delight of my older children who watched the how-to videos with me last year & can also origami fold like a pro. The older ones are actually my favorite prop. Inspired by YouTube videos, they race to see who can do the origami fold the neatest, the fastest. (Score one for mom!) I expect fights over the bucket at some point. (This will be score two for mom)

Because the NOVA Real Cloth Diaper Circle started taking donations of cloth diapers for area families in need during the Great Cloth Diaper Change I hope to grasp a better understanding of cloth diapering in conditions less than ideal during this challenge. Instead of just talking about how to wash if you don’t have a washing machine, I’m going to do it.

My expenses so far are: bucket – $2.60, lid – $1.28, plunger – $5.99, for a total of $9.87.  Everything else I have on hand.

The irony of it all…it’s raining and the toilet in my bathroom isn’t filling with water correctly so now I have to call the plumber.  Hopefully saving some cash by not washing with the washer & dryer will help with that. 😛 Typical.

Filed Under: Cloth Diapers, Parenting Tagged With: advocacy, cloth diapers, flats challenge 2012, parenting, RDA, real diapers

Tiny Tushies

March 19, 2012 by Angela Leave a Comment

Recently I finished the training and accreditation process to become a Real Cloth Diaper Circle Leader with the Real Diaper Association. Yes, I’ve supported families in cloth before, so why all the officialness? First of all, well, this is straight off their site & says it best: “The Real Diaper Association, a nonprofit 501(c)(3) organization, provides support and education to parents all across North America for the use of simple, reusable cloth diapers. The goal of the Real Diaper Association is to put more babies in cloth diapers. To do this we aim to create a cultural shift in understanding cloth diapers-their environmental impact, their ease of use, their accessibility, and their acceptability. The Association will help parents understand that cloth diapers are real diapers.”

Basically, not only do I help other families get their babies into cloth, but I have the backing and brains and resources of this amazing group of volunteers behind me as well. You know the saying, “It takes a village”, there’s no doubt in my mind this is true.  Not everyone knows everything about every cloth diaper and every cloth diaper situation.  This is where we pool our knowledge & resources to share with one another & share it with as many families as we can touch. The passion and drive in this group of volunteers is astounding.

I’ve authored a guest post over at the Real Diaper Association’s blog for this week about diapering a very small baby. Hop on over & take a look.

Do you share a passion of cloth diapers? Do you want to help other families make the change? The Real Diaper Association is looking for you.

Filed Under: Cloth Diapers, Parenting Tagged With: cloth diapers, fluff, RDA, real diapers

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